Q My husband took a female colleague under his w ing after she was abandoned by her husband. My husband and I have been married for seven years, and he just told me that he wants to transition into a woman. I had no idea that he was. No topic — from dating to sex to the process of transitioning itself — is off-limits.
Krista J. After 21 years of marriage, he gave me the news. He is finally becoming himself — but I am more lost than ever. Eighteen months ago, I had a home, a good career, beautiful children and a fabulous husband.
In the summer ofmy husband and I began telling people that he wanted to live as a woman. My husband became a woman. We were an ordinary couple, until the man I married became openly transgendered. Today, the kids call him. Elizabeth Miller sat in her living room with her wedding album in her lap.
The dilemma Eighteen months ago, my husband left me and our children, who were both under five. We had been through a rocky period, drifting apart a little. I put this down in part to the demands of our jobs and my second pregnancy severe morning sickness meant I lost my sex drive. But to him the spark was gone.
Krista J.'s husband is hanging out with another woman. me they are just friends , but he has been leaving me to go hang out with her," she frets.
He looked at the woman he married again when she didn't reply for a long while only to find her staring at him with a blank expression. Her eyes so hollow that it.
A new relationship will long outlive – and swiftly obscure – the heartache you've been through, says Mariella Frostrup.